Happy Monday guys (and girls)!! My trip to Florida went wel..

Happy Monday guys (and girls)!! My trip to Florida went well, and now I am back home. Ya'll have been giving me some great sex questions, and also some good relationship questions in general. One of the questions I received was something to the extent of this: "How do you keep a man happy in a long-term relationship, when science has proven that men get bored with having sex with the same woman after a certain amount of time and then they go cheat on her." LOL!! Ohhh my goodness. Wow...okayyyyy. There has to be a better way to word this question, lol?? At first I was shocked by this guy's question, because it sounded so misogynistic, and from my point of view the men I'm with better be worried I don't get bored, lolol! However, he went on to explain that he followed many beautiful women online that were constantly complaining about their men cheating and treating them poorly. This subject is very very complex, and cannot be summed up in a brief post. I think people are people, and they have different personalities and tendencies. The truth is anyone can get bored. Sex is a powerful drug. Your sex drive alone is a powerful force, because that type of pleasure is the reason we're all here in the first place. For some people sex is a must -- it is a life requirement, they require it in order to function. Others can take it or leave it, it's not a high priority for them. If hindsight is 20/20 you want a partner that views sex in the same way as you do. This is not always possible, because people can change over time depending on life events. But yeah when you get bored you've got to find a fair solution, because for many people they certainly don't want to hurt their partner or make a huge mistake that causes them serious troubles or loss. That's where communication is key. Of course, you don't want to say, "hey I'm bored with you", but there are ways to address this in a respectful manner. For some couples it's as simple as having sex more often, trying new things or being more attentive/romantic, while other couples might seek greater amounts of stimulation with threesome and whatnot. As for the women online complaining about being cheated on, well in my opinion that itself tells you a lot about them. Yeah, it's 2021 and most everyone is on social media, but constantly exposing the details of your personal relationship(s) makes you seem mentally unstable, definitely not someone I would date. Having said that some people are simply doomed for relationship problems, because they are impossible to get along with AND they typically seek out losers, and then expect a good result. You've heard the expression, "their picker is broken", well that is very true of some people. They couldn't pick a good partner if their life depended on it.